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Typically, a woman can only feel attraction for a man when she is in her feminine, therefore as a man you need to step into the masculine dominant role.
You become soft because you have the scarcity mentality. You think there are just a few women out there and there’s nothing you can do about it. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not “egotism”.
You think you can’t create that same connection with another girl, so you settle for less than you deserve without even realizing it YOU NEED TO . There is more than one girl that you can have this feeling with. And you can date these women when you take women off the pedestal you hand crafted out of gold for her. It doesn’t serve you and women don’t like it Check this out: Let’s say you meet a chill guy as a friend and then after only a few days he started buying you a bunch of stuff and paying for all your food and drinks. It allows women to recline into the comfort you lavish them with, put their foot in your mouth that gives too many fake compliments, buys too many gifts, always being available and lets her walk all over you.
Then texts to make sure you got home ok, and “likes” all your facebook posts. Too early man it’s over before it started…You minus well lay on the floor and tell her to walk all over you! Women will only respect you for how much you respect yourself.
When you use money to take a woman out to nice dinners and to buy her gifts too early in the relationship, the woman will begin to think the man is trying to BUY her affection. And if she actually likes this then my advice to men is: RUN!
Personality is the key to being good with women and dating. Deep down, women are attracted to your personality more-so than any other trait of a man.
When you’re coming from this frame of mind, you demonstrate that you are a man of value. Being a man of value is not something you can fake with little tricks and gimmicks, it’s something you are or you aren’t. Stop rejecting yourself by not even talking to women you see all around you.When you build up your personality you simultaneously increase your attractiveness.When you ask a woman what she want’s in a man one of the first thing she’ll say is “a nice guy”.It’s not a bad thing to be soft and vulnerable inside, but just be aware that women are not necessarily ATTRACTED to the soft, limp man until she’s first seen the HARD side of him.Because when you’re soft (expressing feminine character), you put the woman above you on a pedestal (forcing her to take on the masculine role).
You see, so much about becoming good with women and dating is about becoming good with yourself.